John Delony
👤 SpeakerAppearances Over Time
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I shouldn't have said that thing.
I don't want to be that kind of guy.
I'm not that kind of guy.
I shouldn't have had those thoughts.
I shouldn't have looked at that on the internet.
I shouldn't have hit that guy in the parking lot, right?
Guilt is a good thing.
Shame is an identity.
Okay.
And so what you have to commit to doing is not passing that same level of fear.
And am I good enough questioning onto your new wife?
Yeah.
Yeah.
gosh, how do I do that?
You have to be really intentional.
And it starts with you being honest and saying, if you haven't been already, these are conversations you'll need to have now because they're going to resurface in a million wild ways over the course of your marriage.
If you enter into every conversation and every interaction, every tough situation with your fiance in a, oh, you might leave.
If you really saw me and knew me, you would leave.
Hmm.
Yeah.