John Delony

And that's a significant one.

And so you are, okay.

Now, now I'm understanding you are right to say, okay, what's next?

I'm going to free think for a second out loud.

Is that okay?

You go for it, man.

I remember a few years ago talking to a couple, one of the, one of the people had experienced some pretty significant trauma when they were a child.

Okay.

And it had kind of, there'd been some hints about it, but it had never been fully discussed between the two of them.

And when it finally came out and they were having the conversation and this person said, I need to go do my trauma healing and my work.

There was this conversation.

Basically it was, you pause our life.

I'm going to go over here and do, I'm going to pause my life.

I'm going to go over here and do my healing.

You continue.

And

What I communicated to that couple is, hey, you have to do your own trauma healing and y'all are both different now.

Your marriage is different now.

And so any exploration of who you are is an exploration of who y'all are.

And what I'm hearing in your, right?