John Delony

And if he is a plugged in, want to love my wife well husband, which he sounds like he does.

Often, I'll just speak from my personal experience.

The only way I knew how to love my wife well was to make as much money as possible to work 24-7, 365, so that if anything came up unexpected, we could handle it.

Well, and what I missed was I never asked her, hey, how can I love you?

Because she would have said, hey, we have six months of an emergency fund.

We don't owe anybody any money.

You could really love me by just watching TV with me.

By going to this museum with me.

Okay.

Right?

And so your voice matters here.

And you letting him know, I love you.

I'm so lucky I get to be married to you.

How do you want this house to feel when you walk in every day?

There will come a moment when he's going to have to put on his big boy pants and say, here is the number in the bank that I'm okay with.

My wife one day, I've told this story on the show.

She met me in the garage and it was a big showdown we had, um,

But she said, the amount of how much I love you and the amount of money you make is full.

You cannot make any more money to make me feel any safer than I feel right now.

You cannot make any more money to make me feel any more loved or seen or known than I do right now.