John Mark Comer
speaker
2,639 appearances
13 recordings
1 series
first heard May 2026
last heard 7 Sep
John Mark Comer’s voice in public audio — every appearance, attributed to the second.
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That comes next.
But if you say that right away, think about it, it puts all this pressure on the person that you hurt to then turn around and comfort you.
And it makes it about your comfort instead of their comfort.
They have to step in, oh, no, it's okay, I forgive you.
No, really, you're not horrible.
Or I am horrible.
No, you're not horrible.
This isn't about you or I feeling better.
Honestly, it's about us feeling the emotional pain that we have caused somebody else and then processing that emotional pain with them as a friend or a spouse or a sibling or whatever.
And it's unhealthy to wallow in that pain, but it's healthy to sit in it for a little while, if nothing else, to cultivate compassion.
Same to the person who was hurt.
It's unhealthy for you to wallow in it, but it is healthy for you to sit in this moment.
Don't rush through it.
You know, the, oh, it's no big deal.
We all do that.
Ah, everybody's human, whatever.
No, just sit in it for a minute.
Thank you for saying that.
Yes, it really hurt me when you said that, when you did that.
This goes a long way in the process of reconciliation.
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