Julie King
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896 appearances
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first heard May 2018
last heard Jun 2021
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because it will happen with them too.
Yeah, we wrote that chapter because like you, we got a lot of questions like that from our readers too.
And the big point we want to make is that
We can acknowledge all feelings, even when they seem unjustified, even when they seem, you know, irrational or just completely unreasonable.
So we have a whole bunch of stories in that chapter about kids who, you know, wanted very expensive shoes or they wanted a stick just like their sister.
And, you know, the parents in the stories say,
They would say to us, I don't want to indulge my daughter in thinking that she can get these ridiculously expensive shoes.
That's not my values.
Or my little kid who thinks that his sister's stick is straighter than his.
I have to put them under a microscope to see the difference.
How can I acknowledge that feeling?
But the feelings are real.
And we aren't judging them.
We aren't evaluating.
We're not saying you're right.
You should have those shoes.
Or we're not saying you're right.
That stick is better.
But that's how the child feels about it.
And when we say, oh, those sneakers look really cool to you.
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