Julie King
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896 appearances
2 recordings
1 series
first heard May 2018
last heard Jun 2021
Julie King’s voice in public audio — every appearance, attributed to the second.
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know, so we take action to protect ourselves, right?
Because we feel like I can't, you know, I'm going to lose my mind if I keep having to clean the walls from markers.
You know, we do it to protect the furniture or the, you know, I think of it as protecting people or protecting property.
Or as Joanna reminds me to protect relationships, because, you know, sometimes we just feel like screaming at the kids when they keep doing these things.
It's not good for our relationship either.
So so taking action means protecting yourself, protecting the furniture, the other kid.
And it's really important.
The words that we use when we do that are important.
It's not you have lost the privilege of drawing.
You knew you weren't supposed to do that.
How many times do I have to tell you?
Because that shames a child that puts them on the defensive, makes them feel bad about themselves.
What we want to tell them is I can't let this go on anymore.
That's an easier message to hear.
we talk about using I statements, and we're not the only ones.
But this idea of talking from what I need, I need to know the markers aren't going to be ending up on the walls for a little while, rather than using the word you.
Um, I can't, I won't let myself be hit.
That's what I would say.
You know, I don't, I don't like that or I don't want to, I won't be hit
step away.
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