Julie Wright
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141 appearances
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first heard Mar 2019
last heard Mar 2019
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Yeah, and it's a nice feeling when somebody does that, when you get the feeling that someone's really trying to
get beneath the surface.
I mean, we sometimes behave in irrational ways as adults, you know, and we don't want that behavior to be what people are reacting to.
We want them to be curious, just like you said, about what what's really going on with us.
Right.
Oh, that's a good one.
Well, we in in we have a whole chapter devoted to physical behaviors.
And we have a step that comes even before the A step if a physical behavior is is happening in that moment.
Um, and we call it the safety step.
And this means that we're gonna send a clear message every single time.
that we're gonna stop that physical behavior either by putting up our hands to block their hands or
depending on the age of the child and what they're doing, if it's a baby or a young child, sometimes turning their body around so their legs and arms are facing outward.
Um, sometimes it just means moving your body out of the way.
There are lots of different ways to do this depending on on what the actual aggressive they they seem like aggressive moments are like.
But the the idea is that your child over time very quickly gets this idea that you're stopping it very quickly and you're
you know, without any anger or frustration, you're just getting everybody safe.
And you can say things like, Let me just make sure I can get everybody safe and then we'll talk.
So you do that before you go into the A step and jumping ahead to the limit settings step.
For things like that.
Limits can be pretty repetitive.
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