Julie Wright
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141 appearances
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1 series
first heard Mar 2019
last heard Mar 2019
Julie Wright’s voice in public audio — every appearance, attributed to the second.
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So anything you can do, walking, taking a few steps away, counting quietly to yourself, um, letting your child know, make your process transparent to them.
Say, wow, mommy's starting to feel some.
Big ceilings here too.
I'm gonna just
you know, walk to the other room and and come back in a few minutes once I feel a little bit calmer.
So I'm I'm kind of reiterating what Heather just said, but time is your friend.
If nobody's about to get hurt or or be in a dangerous situation.
It's a really good tool to just give yourself some time.
And you can think whatever helps you make that chosen response rat rather than that that automatic response.
Yeah, it's really true.
And but if you think about what you're modeling for your child when you do that, I mean they're gonna make all kinds of mistakes and we don't want them to feel that they're so vulnerable because they've done such a terrible thing.
We want them to feel like making mistakes is normal.
And it's fine to say, you know, can we talk about that?
I'm not sure I did it the way I I wished I'd I had.
You know, and if we do it in that open way.
It helps them enormously going forward.
Yeah, exactly.
I think it's an old idea that parents have to be perfect and if they make a mistake, it's it's shameful.
And it's exactly what we're trying to s change the dynamic on in our relationship with kids.
When they do something that's not what we want them to do, we don't want them to feel shame for it.
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