Kanesha Baynard
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624 appearances
2 recordings
1 series
first heard Nov 2016
last heard Nov 2021
Kanesha Baynard’s voice in public audio — every appearance, attributed to the second.
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A tricky thing in the sense of these are conversations you might not have wanted to have with parents.
Or thought you had to have them.
And a lot of times when we're so busy parenting, we're busy, we might be over stressed, over taxed.
We don't wanna constantly have to explain ourselves.
But at the same time, we want to have
proper support, proper boundaries, and have our relationship with our parents and our kids' relationship with our grandparents be healthy as well.
So it does take time.
Yeah.
A lot of times when we're all trying to figure this out, especially when we're working with our kids.
And they might be s experience a challenge, whether it's at home, at school, with peers, specifically dealing with how they're differently wired.
There's a sense of powerlessness that happens for us as parents.
It happens for the kids.
And sometimes when the grandparents see us struggling with that,
they have a sense of powerlessness and that's when they tend to go into this superhero mode where they're giving us all these tips, telling us everything they read, telling us what they should do in this kind of top down way.
And oftentimes the attention is to solve
A problem for us when it really just creates more problems.
And this whole cycle of powerlessness creates these rifts between the adult child, the grandparents, and then also the grandchildren, and then everybody is left feeling a sense of it's a lot of chaos going on when everybody's trying to help, everybody's trying to be on the same page but no one understands how to get there.
And I think
Really looking at different protocols to support each other and having these systems in place really helps everybody involved.
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