Kanesha Baynard
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624 appearances
2 recordings
1 series
first heard Nov 2016
last heard Nov 2021
Kanesha Baynard’s voice in public audio — every appearance, attributed to the second.
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understand how they can be helpful even in the most tense
Well, one of the things I like to talk to families about and it usually starts with the parents and extends to the grandparents when they invite them in, is having this
PAL system and I just call it that.
It's an acronym, P A L.
And each letter stands for the P is for patience, the A is for assistance, and the L is for love and learning.
And I always tell parents, start with your PAL system.
You know, have patience with yourself, have patience with the situation, your growth and learning about how to be a parent in the situation and then to how to how to parent your child.
And always extend that patience in the situations where you know how to handle and the situations that you don't know how to handle.
And then assistance, have a clear list of what you need.
Be clear about your needs and your expectations.
When you need assistance and if you have this clear list.
when things go well, when things go uh, they're kind of okay and when they go completely what we would call a disaster, when oftentimes it's not, but we feel like it's a z disaster.
have a list of ways you can be assisted so you can be clear on those.
You can ask for them.
You don't have to scramble and you can feel better about getting the exact help that you need.
And then the L for love and learning, you have to love yourself.
You have to love what you're going through because this is new to you day to day.
Some things you have on lock, other things you're still learning, and connecting love with learning, you just give yourself permission to be a learner in those situations and to lean on your assistance and to have patience with yourself.
And when the parents go through this and they kind of create their own protocol around this.
They can then invite the grandparents in.
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