Kanesha Baynard
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624 appearances
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first heard Nov 2016
last heard Nov 2021
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to create their own protocol and then they can cross train the parent and the grandparent.
on what it means to be a palate to each other, to fully support the entire family, to s support the role of grandparents and parents, and then of course ultimately to support the grandchild, because everybody really is wanting to support the grandchild.
And oftentimes if we're not on the same blueprint around what that looks like again I mentioned it's chaos and it's not meant to be chaos, but that happens.
And I feel like when parents give themselves this full permission to use a PAL system, they can be vulnerable, they can be honest, and then they can be
clear about what they need so that it clears up more of the anger, confusion, disappointment or denial, and oftentimes fear.
I love your idea about writing writing the handbook, but to make it a little bit more simple
I do encourage families to have an annual time to, you know, reevaluate their PAL system.
as then together to set um a set of intentions for that calendar year.
Or maybe create a manifesto.
Like I love the Tilt Parenting Manifesto.
Maybe they can build upon that.
Or to set us you know, create a set of agreements or a mission statement.
Because oftentimes we just need a touchstone to refer back to so that we can all stay on the same page around being this multi-generational family, however it looks, if the parents are gr uh caregivers, if there's actually a live in situation or there's more time being spent together in an interje intergenerational connection way.
But having these annual con commitments to look at the pet your pal system, form intentions, create a manifesto, create agreements or a mission statement.
really makes everybody have a seat at the table and that can include the grandchildren too, depending on the age.
because we really want the family to be communicating, to work together and to shift their values to be that we're all in this together and it's okay, however it looks.
It's going to be okay.
The biggest one I'll just start with out the gate is feeling like you're being judged.
I mean that is a huge trigger in general and especially when it comes to parents trying to take care of their kids.
When you feel judged.
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