Kat Van Buren

So I sent a text.

I don't think we're a good fit, however I said it.

And he didn't respond for a year.

Oh my gosh.

forgot about he did he did reach back out a year later he circled back like i thought i was doing a kind clear thing and i thought this is so mature he's probably gonna reply hey thanks for being so cool about this nice meeting you nothing what was his went dark and then his response when i can't remember was it like all good no hard feelings a year later he's like no problem

Hope you're having a good life.

And what that means is he's trying to see if you want to go out with him again at that point.

Yeah.

A year later, you're going to reply.

Or I thought, did his reply get stuck somewhere in like the wires, the towers and text message virtual land.

And it finally came all the way to me because what an odd thing to revisit.

No, I think that he was like, I'm thinking of Amy and,

oh, I never responded to her.

That means I still get to respond.

Okay.

And maybe that response is going to elicit her to think about me and maybe she'll give me a second chance.

Speaking of communication, another question we got was about communication, but this is for a married couple, so not dating.

She just said, any advice for married couples on communication?

But advice explained like we're toddlers.

And I'm thinking, interesting to be in a marriage and need help with communication on such a low level.