Kelly McDaniel

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429 appearances 1 recordings 1 series first heard Jul 2026 last heard 30 Jul

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The Tamsen Show · The Hidden Reason You Keep Choosing Emotionally Unavailable People · 30 Jul 2026 podcast

So if I missed out on nurturing, I'm probably going to really need to get regular massage.

I'm going to need to eat really well, take walks, take naps, rest.

How many of us saw our mother's rest?

Never.

It was seen as lazy, but it's actually really a form of nurturing.

And if we didn't see our mother nurture herself, chances are we didn't see her nurture us either.

Let's say that we grew up not feeling very safe.

We're going to really want to curate an environment of safety and may not know how to do that.

That's where guidance really helps.

Depending on the degree of mother hunger, that guidance could come from friends, family, even religious institutions.

But more extreme forms of mother hunger, namely third-degree mother hunger.

which is a category that I came up with that explains what happens to the attachment system when a daughter has a mother who was abusive, who was actually frightening.

So the object of attachment that we desperately need and want is also terrifying.

So we learn to bond in fear.

Is that what we do in relationships online?

And then that's what we do in relationships.

We will attract partners that other people might look at and say, oh, that's a bad idea.

That person's kind of scary.

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