Kelly McDaniel

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429 appearances 1 recordings 1 series first heard Jul 2026 last heard 30 Jul

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The Tamsen Show · The Hidden Reason You Keep Choosing Emotionally Unavailable People · 30 Jul 2026 podcast

But we don't see it because we grew up bonding to somebody who was untrustworthy.

Our love attachment system thrives on that, knows how to deal with it.

That feels like love.

And it can take a long time and many broken relationships before a woman may pause and say, I'm the common denominator here.

Something in me is hurting and needs attention.

And that's when professional help really helps, to identify what was lost, identify that when you attach to someone who was dangerous,

it really hijacked your attachment system and you're going to need to take a break from relationships.

Because we can't stand to feel that.

Well, I've called it different things.

When I see a pattern, a woman who's struggling to break the cycle of one relationship after another, and they're starting to get progressively more dangerous, let's say, or more risky, or her value system is getting compromised more and more, that's when it starts to look like an addiction.

Yeah.

Where we do something, and if you think about falling in love,

that dopamine high, the temporary insanity, right?

It's pretty euphoric.

We feel really high.

You want it to last forever.

We want it to last forever.

And there's a real reason this is biologically so strong.

But we can get really attached to those dopamine hormones when we have mother hunger.

Because we're hungry.

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