Kelly McDaniel

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429 appearances 1 recordings 1 series first heard Jul 2026 last heard 30 Jul

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The Tamsen Show · The Hidden Reason You Keep Choosing Emotionally Unavailable People · 30 Jul 2026 podcast

Yes, I do.

Probably because my perspective, I've talked to thousands of women who did not experience enough nurturing or protection or guidance and don't feel securely attached.

So it can impact relationships with friends, with lovers, with children that you may or may not have, with employers, with everyone.

Because our relationship with our mother sets the template for all others.

Well, it's not easy.

And the reason it's so difficult is because of the primary nature of this bond, how important this bond is.

Our body's really designed to keep us unaware.

To protect us?

To protect us.

Mother Nature's very gentle.

And so it's actually, there's a researcher psychologist, Jennifer Fried, who wrote the book Betrayal Blindness.

And she wrote it for women who have experienced infidelity in their romantic relationships and how we can just not know.

We can truly not know what's happening.

We don't see it.

Mother Nature has blinders on us.

And when we find out, it can be terribly shocking and really difficult.

So I took that theory to apply what happens

When a little girl has a mother who can be frightening, Mother Nature will protect us from knowing that.

Or let's say that she's just unavailable or not feeling well, but we need her.

We're going to miss the ways she's unavailable.

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