Kelly McDaniel

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429 appearances 1 recordings 1 series first heard Jul 2026 last heard 30 Jul

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The Tamsen Show · The Hidden Reason You Keep Choosing Emotionally Unavailable People · 30 Jul 2026 podcast

And then we may find ourselves attracted to friends who are not available or lovers who are not available.

Right.

You know, and it's interesting because whoever we're in relationship with, we may find our attachment style sliding on the spectrum.

Sure.

For example, for me, if I am attracting a partner who is more on the anxious end of the spectrum,

perhaps more needy, wants more of me than my intimacy threshold might be comfortable with, I'm going to look avoidant.

I'm going to back off.

Flip side, if I'm in a relationship with someone who's more avoidant, they have lots of other priorities, I'm not one of them, I'm going to look a lot more anxious.

That's really normal.

That's part of the spectrum.

And what I have found with my clients and with myself is that in romantic relationships specifically, I'm a flip-flop.

So if I've experienced a romantic relationship as a little suffocating, I was with someone who was more anxious than I, the next time I'm dating someone or intrigued, probably they're going to be more avoidant.

Yeah.

The other way.

Such a good question.

And it's interesting because when I was thinking of writing this book, my clients were like, please talk about food.

Really?

I think it impacts so many of us as women in this culture.

And the eating disorder language can be very helpful if it's critical.

Sure.

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