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Kendra Dahlstrom

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Finding Peak w/ Ryan Hanley
Branding The Lie: Escaping The High-Achiever's Trap | Kendra Dahlstrom

Maybe eating vegan is the right answer.

Finding Peak w/ Ryan Hanley
Branding The Lie: Escaping The High-Achiever's Trap | Kendra Dahlstrom

Maybe Miracle Morning is the right answer.

Finding Peak w/ Ryan Hanley
Branding The Lie: Escaping The High-Achiever's Trap | Kendra Dahlstrom

I think all these things help.

Finding Peak w/ Ryan Hanley
Branding The Lie: Escaping The High-Achiever's Trap | Kendra Dahlstrom

However, they're not going to get to the root cause.

Finding Peak w/ Ryan Hanley
Branding The Lie: Escaping The High-Achiever's Trap | Kendra Dahlstrom

And I think to get to the root cause, the number one strategy that my methods allow is giving yourself the grace of space and time, like you said, to have some reflection and really ask yourself the tough questions like, what is it that I'm afraid to see?

Finding Peak w/ Ryan Hanley
Branding The Lie: Escaping The High-Achiever's Trap | Kendra Dahlstrom

What is it that I'm afraid to say out loud?

Finding Peak w/ Ryan Hanley
Branding The Lie: Escaping The High-Achiever's Trap | Kendra Dahlstrom

And acknowledge what is the one truth that I'm

Finding Peak w/ Ryan Hanley
Branding The Lie: Escaping The High-Achiever's Trap | Kendra Dahlstrom

afraid to admit, you know, like what's not working for me anymore in my life and make a list.

Finding Peak w/ Ryan Hanley
Branding The Lie: Escaping The High-Achiever's Trap | Kendra Dahlstrom

And it doesn't have to mean it's cast in stone.

Finding Peak w/ Ryan Hanley
Branding The Lie: Escaping The High-Achiever's Trap | Kendra Dahlstrom

If you make a list, you may realize that, okay, next week, this one went off the list.

Finding Peak w/ Ryan Hanley
Branding The Lie: Escaping The High-Achiever's Trap | Kendra Dahlstrom

You know, it's just start learning to have that relationship with yourself where you're taking time to reflect and have that mental processing time.

Finding Peak w/ Ryan Hanley
Branding The Lie: Escaping The High-Achiever's Trap | Kendra Dahlstrom

Like you talked about, we're really good at talking, but we're not really good at listening, especially to ourselves.

Finding Peak w/ Ryan Hanley
Branding The Lie: Escaping The High-Achiever's Trap | Kendra Dahlstrom

Yes.

Finding Peak w/ Ryan Hanley
Branding The Lie: Escaping The High-Achiever's Trap | Kendra Dahlstrom

Yeah.

Finding Peak w/ Ryan Hanley
Branding The Lie: Escaping The High-Achiever's Trap | Kendra Dahlstrom

I love that question.

Finding Peak w/ Ryan Hanley
Branding The Lie: Escaping The High-Achiever's Trap | Kendra Dahlstrom

So first of all, there's one core question I ask myself every day.

Finding Peak w/ Ryan Hanley
Branding The Lie: Escaping The High-Achiever's Trap | Kendra Dahlstrom

And now I ask myself probably hundreds of times a day.

Finding Peak w/ Ryan Hanley
Branding The Lie: Escaping The High-Achiever's Trap | Kendra Dahlstrom

I'm not always perfect at it, but it's, will this bring me closer to peace?

Finding Peak w/ Ryan Hanley
Branding The Lie: Escaping The High-Achiever's Trap | Kendra Dahlstrom

And what I find is if the answer is no, then the answer is no.

Finding Peak w/ Ryan Hanley
Branding The Lie: Escaping The High-Achiever's Trap | Kendra Dahlstrom

Now, if it's like a business decision, let's say there's like a contract or something I'm in, right?