Keolani Young

We might go, God, you're so fixed.

You're so stubborn, man.

You just always have to think this way or that way, or you're so opinionated.

That's who they're designed to be.

That's their gift.

They're bringing a different gift to the table.

They're bringing different energy.

So just being able to look, this is why I love human design because it gives you context for what's already there.

And so one of my favorite things has been doing these readings for couples, especially who have been married for a long time.

And I'm like, oh, here's what I'm noticing in your chart.

And the wife will go, oh my God, I've been saying this for 20 years.

And they will sometimes come back later and say, gosh, like nothing is different, but it is.

We didn't really do anything differently, but we're so much happier.

It's just kind of,

This understanding of those differences and they stop trying to change each other and more start looking at the person almost with a curiosity and a newness.

There is a hypnotist who shared this quote.

I think it was like Erickson or something.

I don't remember.

But the quote was, the way you see someone is the best they can ever be in your presence.

Whoa.