Kezia Noble
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154 appearances
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first heard Nov 2024
last heard May 2025
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Weddings, pictures of their babies even. It's really nice. It's great.
I've got which one?
Oh, yeah. Okay, fine. We wrote that a long time ago, yeah.
Yes.
So it's a form of validation, positive validation. A double-sided compliment is a mix, actually, of positive and negative, I should say. So if you say to a woman, I think you'd look better if you wore those kind of shoes, that's kind of like an insult almost. Right. So you've got to...
cushion the blow so you say look those shoes look really good on you but if you were wearing and then you put in the type of shoe or it could be dress or anything that you find sexy Then you say to her, if you were wearing these kind of shoes, you know, dot, dot, dot, I would be totally making a move on you or I wouldn't be able to control myself. So it's also a form of sexual escalation.
You are flirting with her, but you're not saying to her, I want you quite yet. You are titillating her. You are teasing her. And women respond very, very well to that. But you need that cushion to begin with. You need to say you look good first. But you can't just go in straight for you should be wearing this because she can translate that as an attack. And then you get the hostile reaction.
You don't want a hostile reaction.
It's doing that, but it's also, Saying, yeah, you've got boxes that need to be ticked and you know what you want sexually. You're just lacing it with, you know, just that it's just that tease. OK, it's very important at the beginning. So, yeah, I love double sided compliments. I think people should use them much more.
It's also just to go a little bit of a deep dive on it. It's kind of showing the shadow side, which is something I teach about how to use the shadow side to seduce a woman. And it's very important that if you are that kind, great guy, that you show the element of the bad guy, you know, or the very sexual guy. And it's that polarity and contrast that make women go crazy.
I know of some of the theories, but I know, no, I tried to, I have a lot of friends who've been to psychologists. I have a lot of clients who went to psychologists and most of the times it does not help them. Um,
I just don't, I'm interested into it to a certain degree, but I just have learned so much psychology from hanging around strip clubs, from honestly, like ridiculous level of psychology there, from hanging around people who are marketers, salespeople, game, pickup artists. These people know psychology because they practice it. It's not just theory.
They can look at the things that are theory and go, that's crap. Let's get rid of that. That's good in theory, or it's good in this situation. It's not good in that situation. So I prefer to be with people who understand psychology, but not from a book. They've done it. They've experienced it, and they live through it and go, no, this is bullshit. This does not work.
You know, like some people that, I'm trying to find a really like basic, like basic psychology would be like, oh, you need to mirror the person. And I'm just thinking it doesn't work. It doesn't not help, but it doesn't work. So waste your time on that. You know, let's work on this instead, if that makes sense.
Like, for instance, you know, like I have this thing where I don't want to talk about it too much. I've got a video coming out about it, but it's reverse psychology, how to use anti-self. How to sort of go the opposite and undersell yourself on purpose, like try and put the person off you. Now, they would never teach that in a psychology book, but it's fucking powerful when you know how to do it.
And it's got some rules to it and things, but I've been using it now for about a year. and passing it on like sort of in private with people. And they're like, wow, this stuff is real. It works. But again, you would not find that in a book. Like, oh no, always, you know, oversell yourself and show your best possible self.
And it's like, no, you've got to use a bit of this other stuff also in the mix, which doesn't make sense on paper, but does work when you do it correctly.
Well, because women have been on so many dates and what they do is women like to categorize men. And if the man is asking the same kind of tired, unimaginative questions that all the other guys have been asking, then she's not going to be on her toes. She's going to be in, you know, I call it autopilot mode where she's not making the effort because she's She's kind of already been through that.
She's gone through the motions and she's already kind of got the outcome of how it's going to end. Oh, he's going to ask me this now. And his response is going to be A, B, and C. So it becomes predictable. Women like excitement. They like excitement more than men do. Okay. Men don't want a headache. Men want someone nice, calm, and compliant. Women want excitement much more than men.
And it has to be they have to feel stimulated emotionally and mentally. That doesn't mean you have to have this very serious highfalutin conversation about something that's very deep. No, I don't mean that. But it just means about making her, forcing her to have to think, forcing her, if she has to think, it means she has to invest.
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