Scared to Make a Move? How to Read Women & Know When to Go For It (Featuring Kezia Noble!)
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How Can I Read Women's Signals?
Welcome back to the How to Get a Girlfriend podcast. I am your host, dating coach Conal Barrett, helping you do just that, get a great girlfriend. Bye. Bye. Bye. Bye. Bye. email me a dating question, email me a dating problem you have, and I will respond to you. So I'm quite literally your dating coach. At least you can reach out to me and I can help you out and I'll respond to you. And I might even ask your question on an episode. Today I'm doing a really cool interview with Kezia Noble. If you've ever wondered how the heck do you talk to women? How do I read women? How do I know when to make a move? When not to? Well, you know who knows women? Is women. And Kezia Noble really knows women. She's a dating expert. She's based in the UK. She is fantastic.
And she and I spoke for about a half hour with all kinds of great insight from Kezia. So this is a rebroadcast episode, an encore episode from six or seven months ago. But I wanted to rebroadcast it for a very specific reason. She shares a dating tip in this episode at the very end. So about 30 minutes in, she shares one of the best dating tips I've ever heard from another expert. It's about what to do, what to say when you approach a woman and initially she quote rejects you and how to flip it and how to flip it into actually a successful approach. And I just love the tip, and I had to rebroadcast it. Also, Kezia is just fantastic. She's just a brilliant, brilliant mind in this world. So enjoy this rebroadcast episode with myself talking to Kezia.
Before we get to that, I have a quick story. I want to share with you... woman's point of view on approaching as I began to see it when I started meeting women out in the real world. So here's a quick story. I think you're going to love this. I'm at Barnes and Noble one day, and this is in the late 2000s. So I had just been approaching women for about six months or so off and on. I was still pretty wobbly doing it, but I was trying my best. And walked up to a woman on the third floor of the Barnes & Noble in Union Square in the magazine rack section. And I walk over and I'm feeling pretty confident. I'm in the zone. I'm in that authentic, confident zone, which does happen once you get some momentum. And I approached a really pretty girl. She had these cool wrist tattoos.
She had tattoos on her ankles. She's kind of like How would you describe her? She was like an edgy kind of rock and roll chick, edginess, and just sort of a bad girl in a good way. Anyway, so I'm feeling confident. I walk up to her and I said, hey, what's up? I just saw you and I had to meet you. You're really cute. I like your tattoos. Something pretty genuine, but also direct like that. I was being direct. And we chatted for two or three minutes, and it went very well. And her friend was with her, by the way. Her friend was with her. And we chatted, and then I went for the number. I went for the date. And she said, well, I really don't think so. I mean, I live pretty far away from here. I'm in central Connecticut. It's like 100 miles away from New York City.
And basically, she started to turn me down. She was doing it politely, but she turned me down. And I said, wait, you're going to break my heart here at Barnes & Noble? Well, I'm going to go down to a different floor. And maybe I'm going to buy a poetry book and write a poem called Why Stacey broke Connell's heart? I made some joke like that. And she giggled and laughed. She said, yeah, I don't know. I'm pretty far away. But she was flattered, but she wasn't. She said thanks, but no thanks. So I walk away. I go to a different floor. I'm just book shopping. I'm walking around. And about two minutes later, there's a tap on my shoulder. And I turn around, and it's Stacey. And she says, hey, you know what? After you left, I just thought about it for a second.
And you coming up to me is the coolest thing that's happened to me in so long, in months. So yeah, here, take my number. And we had a date a week later. I just, I can't remember. I remember feeling so amazed that she not only wanted to talk to me and go out with me, but she actually went looking for me. Think about that.
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Chapters
8 chapters
1
How Can I Read Women's Signals?
0:00–6:23
2
What is the Double-Sided Compliment?
6:23–7:32
3
What Makes Men Attractive to Women?
7:32–8:06
4
How Can I Be Charismatic on Dates?
8:06–10:56
5
How to Discuss Your Career with Women?
10:56–11:42
6
Why Do Women Dislike Dating Apps?
11:42–13:12
7
What Should I Do If a Woman Rejects Me?
13:12
8
How Can I Approach Women Confidently?
0:00–43:23
Speakers
2 identifiedMore from How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
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The 10 Most Surprisingly Sexy Things to Say on a First Date
The 7 Lies that Keep You From Approaching—and 7 Tips to Confidently Talk to Women Anywhere
The 10 Texting Commandments: How to Stop Getting Ghosted and Start Getting Dates
21 Flirty Ways to Make Her Feel Authentic Attraction (How to Escape the Friend Zone, Part 2)
The Date Seemed Great… So Why Did You End Up in the Friend Zone? (Part 1)