Lael Stone

And he's just like, no, no.

He's like, put it down.

He's like, let me take care of you.

And I've had to work really hard to allow that to be there, to allow that vulnerability to be there, to let him hold me, to allow him to stand in that place.

And we've worked it really well now that, you know, when I go work, I'd work.

And then when I come home from work or finish stuff, I really consciously go, and that's done now.

And now be...

Just be softer or just be more in that feminine or just allow him to take care of me, look after me.

It's really hard, though.

It's hard, I think, because not only have we been trained most of our lives to do that, but there's a surrender involved in that.

And that is vulnerable.

It's the lead up that's the most stressful, isn't it?

Once you're there on stage, you're like, oh, my God, I love this.

This is what I'm meant to be doing with my life.

It's the part beforehand where I'm always like, why the fuck do I do this for a job?

I'm not doing this anymore.

This is not worth it.

And then you step off stage and you're like, that was amazing.

I think a lot of women would relate to that when we haven't had those good role models and it hasn't been safe around that.

It's like you're training your body and your nervous system to go, it's different now.