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Lester Ryan Clark

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218 total appearances

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All The Feelings • Adulting
Patience & Kindness: The Two Heavenly Virtues of Not Being a Big Dumb Jerk

Yeah. Yeah. That is – I like what you just said though. In my desperate effort to hear my voice, I just started immediately talking. I like that you say that usually you would think that fear would be the bigger motivator and I think for a long time it was, that it has been. It worked. For lack of a better word, fear works. Yeah.

All The Feelings • Adulting
Patience & Kindness: The Two Heavenly Virtues of Not Being a Big Dumb Jerk

Yeah. Yeah. That is – I like what you just said though. In my desperate effort to hear my voice, I just started immediately talking. I like that you say that usually you would think that fear would be the bigger motivator and I think for a long time it was, that it has been. It worked. For lack of a better word, fear works. Yeah.

All The Feelings • Adulting
Patience & Kindness: The Two Heavenly Virtues of Not Being a Big Dumb Jerk

uh i'm still on green um but maybe that that button can only be pushed so long and then it just doesn't work anymore because nothing has burned down i am right my nation is not in decline and i was just outside on a walk i didn't catch fire once like not like that

All The Feelings • Adulting
Patience & Kindness: The Two Heavenly Virtues of Not Being a Big Dumb Jerk

uh i'm still on green um but maybe that that button can only be pushed so long and then it just doesn't work anymore because nothing has burned down i am right my nation is not in decline and i was just outside on a walk i didn't catch fire once like not like that

All The Feelings • Adulting
Patience & Kindness: The Two Heavenly Virtues of Not Being a Big Dumb Jerk

Right. Yeah. This line, someone just remembered their print coupons and they're hidden somewhere deep in their purse. And I'm already line committed. So I'm not going to go somewhere.

All The Feelings • Adulting
Patience & Kindness: The Two Heavenly Virtues of Not Being a Big Dumb Jerk

Right. Yeah. This line, someone just remembered their print coupons and they're hidden somewhere deep in their purse. And I'm already line committed. So I'm not going to go somewhere.

All The Feelings • Adulting
Patience & Kindness: The Two Heavenly Virtues of Not Being a Big Dumb Jerk

No. No, I see what you're saying. No, it's not the way that I think of it. That would be more restraint.

All The Feelings • Adulting
Patience & Kindness: The Two Heavenly Virtues of Not Being a Big Dumb Jerk

No. No, I see what you're saying. No, it's not the way that I think of it. That would be more restraint.

All The Feelings • Adulting
Patience & Kindness: The Two Heavenly Virtues of Not Being a Big Dumb Jerk

No. But that's – yeah, I feel that patient is a very passive reaction to a fairly passive situation. It's more just like it's not – holding yourself back from beating someone up. It's just try not to get so annoyed at Ralph's. Like, that's it. Can you tell that I spend too much time at Ralph's?

All The Feelings • Adulting
Patience & Kindness: The Two Heavenly Virtues of Not Being a Big Dumb Jerk

No. But that's – yeah, I feel that patient is a very passive reaction to a fairly passive situation. It's more just like it's not – holding yourself back from beating someone up. It's just try not to get so annoyed at Ralph's. Like, that's it. Can you tell that I spend too much time at Ralph's?

All The Feelings • Adulting
Patience & Kindness: The Two Heavenly Virtues of Not Being a Big Dumb Jerk

What would be an example? And then how does that differ from restraint?

All The Feelings • Adulting
Patience & Kindness: The Two Heavenly Virtues of Not Being a Big Dumb Jerk

What would be an example? And then how does that differ from restraint?

All The Feelings • Adulting
Patience & Kindness: The Two Heavenly Virtues of Not Being a Big Dumb Jerk

The interesting thing about kindness... Kindness slaps.

All The Feelings • Adulting
Patience & Kindness: The Two Heavenly Virtues of Not Being a Big Dumb Jerk

The interesting thing about kindness... Kindness slaps.

All The Feelings • Adulting
Patience & Kindness: The Two Heavenly Virtues of Not Being a Big Dumb Jerk

Well, it's exactly what you were talking about of fear only works so long that you can scare people into doing something. Or if you're nice to them, hopefully that will cause more empathy. And that just spreads and spreads because you are forced to realize it's not just you against the world.

All The Feelings • Adulting
Patience & Kindness: The Two Heavenly Virtues of Not Being a Big Dumb Jerk

Well, it's exactly what you were talking about of fear only works so long that you can scare people into doing something. Or if you're nice to them, hopefully that will cause more empathy. And that just spreads and spreads because you are forced to realize it's not just you against the world.

All The Feelings • Adulting
Patience & Kindness: The Two Heavenly Virtues of Not Being a Big Dumb Jerk

I think it happens a lot more than we think it does. Mm-hmm. And I also think that showing a TikTok of someone being quiet and kind isn't as interesting as showing someone screaming at someone else in an airport. And so it makes it seem like society is coming apart at the seams all the time. And it's just really not.

All The Feelings • Adulting
Patience & Kindness: The Two Heavenly Virtues of Not Being a Big Dumb Jerk

I think it happens a lot more than we think it does. Mm-hmm. And I also think that showing a TikTok of someone being quiet and kind isn't as interesting as showing someone screaming at someone else in an airport. And so it makes it seem like society is coming apart at the seams all the time. And it's just really not.

All The Feelings • Adulting
Patience & Kindness: The Two Heavenly Virtues of Not Being a Big Dumb Jerk

There's something, I mean, there's something kind of nicely boring about being just sort of everyday positive. You don't have to be running around like Mr. Beast and buying Hummers for people. I don't actually know who Mr. Beast is. Does he like give away a bunch of money or something?

All The Feelings • Adulting
Patience & Kindness: The Two Heavenly Virtues of Not Being a Big Dumb Jerk

There's something, I mean, there's something kind of nicely boring about being just sort of everyday positive. You don't have to be running around like Mr. Beast and buying Hummers for people. I don't actually know who Mr. Beast is. Does he like give away a bunch of money or something?