Lili Padman
👤 SpeakerAppearances Over Time
Podcast Appearances
Yeah.
Yeah.
Isn't it so sad that we realize this all?
Is your dad gone?
He's gone, yeah.
Yeah, mine too.
And I'm like, I just hate that I now have all this compassion for him.
Because I was the great challenger of him as well.
Just like me, yes.
For me, it's just sad.
It's like, here's this man on earth that had this boy he clearly loved, and I could have adored him more, and that would have filled him up more.
And that was on the table for me to do, and I didn't for all my many reasons.
That's a bummer.
Yeah, yeah.
I don't even think it's ever anger.
It's just kind of hurt, which is even sadder, you know, than not to be just angry about.
Okay, so at some point in your 65 years in academia and residency and all this stuff, you yourself come across attachment theory, right?
And you're learning about it.
So just give us as brief as possible explanation of attachment theory, which started maybe in the 50s or something.
No, he did coke and sat in his room and thought.