Lisa Bilyeu

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1,143 appearances 6 recordings 5 series first heard Nov 2024 last heard 20 Dec

Lisa Bilyeu’s voice in public audio — every appearance, attributed to the second.

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I have to own that that was my behavior, that I brought that to the relationship, that that just fueled the fire.

So for me, it was about identifying all the things that I participated in, then going, how do I make sure that I don't do that in the future?

How do I build my confidence back?

And how do I make sure that when I get into a new relationship, that it's somebody that actually deserves me?

And how do I set boundaries and guidelines so that I never get trapped again?

Because I wanted to hold on to my confidence and I wanted to make sure that the next person I was with wasn't going to even potentially erode it.

Now, here's the tricky thing is you never know.

You never know who you get with and how they're going to be.

So when I met Tom, I came in with a set of boundaries.

I'd already built my confidence back because that's important.

I don't rely on him for my confidence.

I built it myself.

And then I sat with him.

And when we're dating, over time, I start to reveal these are my non-negotiables.

These are my boundaries.

These are my value system.

This is my belief system.

And over time, how does he respond?

If he starts to disrespect it, goodbye.

And I just told myself, this is what you stand for, Lisa.

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