Lisa Bilyeu

And my husband,

He would actually out loud mock my dreams.

Being my partner, there's two ways or there's multiple ways.

Now, that brings me down.

He could have been the toxic person that brings me down, that mocks me, that mocks my book, that mocks the idea of what I'm doing.

That made me more hesitant to go after my dream.

That made me more insecure to speak my dream because I was like, what if this is silly?

Or it could be him where he's like, you've got this.

Right?

Like you start to doubt yourself.

Imagine all the women you're going to help.

Now, flash forward, I'm with someone like my husband who uplifts me, who contributes to my confidence.

Even today, when I made my book announcement, he came on my life and he was sick.

And he's coughing and he's sneezing.

He's the one where I'm like, oh my God, I'm going to do this book.

And he's like, if I've got the flu and I've got the fever, I'm still going to show up for you.

I don't know what I'm doing.

And he's the one that's like, you got this, babe.

That's what the difference between a toxic relationship can do and a healthy relationship.

So I'm building my confidence as I'm taking off where they say they build the plane as you take off.