Lisa Bilyeu

So it's like I'm building my confidence about writing a book as I'm writing the book.

And the impact it can have on a woman and her confidence.

I didn't really feel the weight until after my book came out.

And my husband,

Being my partner, there's two ways or there's multiple ways.

So that's really what the extra chapter is about.

He could have been the toxic person that brings me down, that mocks me, that mocks my book, that mocks the idea of what I'm doing.

It's how to identify that you're in a relationship that isn't serving you.

It's how to address it.

Or it could be him where he's like, you've got this.

It's whether you should stay or leave.

It's how you got manipulated.

Imagine all the women you're going to help.

And the last thing is we beat ourselves up, right?

Even today, when I made my book announcement, he came on my life and he was sick.

Oh my God, it's my fault.

I shouldn't have seen the signs.

And he's coughing and he's sneezing.

What I did is I definitely took ownership because I can't control how he feels, but I can control how I show up.

And he's like, if I've got the flu and I've got the fever, I'm still going to show up for you.