Lisa Bilyeu

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1,143 appearances 6 recordings 5 series first heard Nov 2024 last heard 20 Dec

Lisa Bilyeu’s voice in public audio — every appearance, attributed to the second.

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Again, this is before Quest.

So I don't believe in myself.

I'm being told time and time again, oh my God, you're such an amazing wife.

I can't believe how much you take care of Tom.

I got that from Tom.

I got that from my mom.

I got that from my dad.

I got it from everybody, every couple that met.

They would turn to Tom and be like, oh my God, you're so lucky.

Your wife takes care of everything.

What a great wife.

So I started to identify with being a great wife.

But I didn't want to be a stay-at-home wife.

And so here I am tying my validation to my identity.

And the identity wasn't even something that I wanted.

So you can see how your identity can actually trap you.

And so what I do right now is I reassess what my identity is and if it still aligns with the person I'm trying to become.

And if it doesn't, then A, I go, cool, how do I make sure I now no longer get my validation from this identity that doesn't serve me?

That becomes a skill set.

What do I need to do?

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