Lisa Bilyeu
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1,143 appearances
6 recordings
5 series
first heard Nov 2024
last heard 20 Dec
Lisa Bilyeu’s voice in public audio — every appearance, attributed to the second.
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Okay, if I'm feeling great about people saying that I'm a great stay-at-home wife, what can I do that's solely based on me and my own ability to validate myself?
all right, well, I really like working out.
I really want to do 50 push-ups.
So you know what?
I'm just going to build my validation on the fact that right now I can only do two push-ups, but I'm going to promise myself that I'm going to show up at the gym every single day in service of trying to get better at push-ups.
It's abstract.
It has nothing to do with work, but I'm building the validation within myself because I said I was going to do something and I'm working every day to achieve it.
The same with a book.
I said, I'm going to write a book.
I'm going to build my validation every day in working on the book.
I said I was going to write it and I freaking wrote the book.
I need to be proud that I wrote the book.
And the problem is if you start to identify as, let's say, I want to be number one New York Times bestseller.
I do want to be that.
But if I tie an identity to only that, now you can see I'm not even happy or validating myself that I wrote a book.
I'm actually invalidating myself that I didn't hit New York Times number one.
So be careful of what you identify, whether that's in a title, right?
Whether it's just a job description.
So right now, my job description technically is I'm president of impact theory.
I love that.
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