Lisa Bilyeu
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1,143 appearances
6 recordings
5 series
first heard Nov 2024
last heard 20 Dec
Lisa Bilyeu’s voice in public audio — every appearance, attributed to the second.
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He confessed that he cheated on me, but he did it in a way that he lied to me.
And so he actually just dumped me, didn't tell me what he was doing, made me question myself.
Then I started to beg, which of course, that's Lisa that didn't have the confidence.
I just thought my validation was tied to him.
So I need him back so I can feel good about myself again.
So I would beg for him to come back.
A week later, he confessed that he cheated on me with 10 different women.
Now, at the time, it was just kissing, but still at 16, that's still a very big deal.
10 people is a big deal.
And even the way he told me, so he dumps me first.
So he makes me needy.
I then am desperate to get back with him.
He then drops this bomb.
And guess what I do?
I'm like, oh, it's fine.
I just want you back.
So the manipulative tactic that was played in the strategy to keep me, even though he cheated on me, you do that enough.
I was with him for almost four years.
So you can imagine by the end how I felt about myself, how I saw myself, my insecurities, my unworthiness.
And so once I left him, it took me a good year to assess, rebuild my confidence so that when I met someone like Tom, I was very confident in laying out my ground rules and my non-negotiables.
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