Lisa Bilyeu

So I just started preparing myself for that.

what my insecurity was telling me and how I could eventually turn that critic in my head into my coach.

And that was the final piece where I was like, oh, the bitch in my head is actually my BFF.

She's helping guide me.

She's telling me what I'm weak at.

She's pointing out all the areas where I may get trapped, but she's pointing them out ahead of time so I can preempt and have a plan in place.

Thank you, negative voice, for helping me process this in order for me to show up in true authenticity on the path of my mission.

Yeah, identity is what I call like the velvet handcuffs.

So it makes you feel good, right?

When someone says, oh, you're a great fill in the blank.

So you're a great stay-at-home wife.

Now imagine, I don't want to be a stay-at-home wife, but they've put great in front of it.

It's like, oh, well, at least I'm good at something, right?

Because I didn't believe in myself.

Again, this is before Quest.

So I don't believe in myself.

I'm being told time and time again, oh my God, you're such an amazing wife.

I can't believe how much you take care of Tom.

I got that from Tom.

I got that from my mom.