Lisa Tawney

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372 appearances 6 recordings 1 series first heard Oct 2018 last heard Oct 2019

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The Hook Up · Unicorn hunting · 3 Jun 2019 podcast

And and I think this highlights uh what we mentioned before, but also probably what we we mentioned any time we're on the show.

It's about really clear, honest communication.

And um, you know, none of us like to feel we've been gypped.

And um, you know, and and one of the important things I think in in any threesome situation is that um everybody's looking out for everybody's pleasure.

And really in trying to ensure that everybody's having a good time and that people don't feel like they're a third wheel.

And um you know, and that they're all respected and um yeah, I'm really sorry to hear that experience of yours, you didn't feel that way.

absolutely.

And uh and I I think it takes a lot of negotiation.

um to uh if you're the third person coming into that arrangement uh to really um understand what you're after as well so that you don't feel that you're in this um unequal power uh dynamic.

And uh yeah, a lot of people can feel very much like they're just there for the pleasure and the amusement of the couple rather than thinking that there are three individual people

people here all enjoying each other sexually.

Yeah, absolutely.

Um yeah, it's really crucial to have those uh open conversations, isn't it?

Because yeah, you don't want to be in a situation where um you suddenly realise that uh uh uh that's not okay, I I can't be doing that or that you might freak out seeing your partner doing something to someone or maybe there's something that you like to uh keep for yourselves as a special thing.

Yeah.

Um and say, Well maybe

Maybe um

I'm happy to not have anal sex with you, but I'm happy to have anal sex with my partner and we're just gonna keep that as a separate thing.

So you really wanna have a great conversation um about that.

And and it it's a bit unusual I think for some people to think to have a really upfront, honest graphic, detailed conversation about what you like to do.

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