Logan Urie

But instead of using it for attention, I want you to use it for

connection.

And so I often tell people, talk to fewer people at the same time.

It's really hard to juggle a lot of conversations and you might miss a great connection because you matched with them and then got distracted by someone else.

So recently, Hinge launched something called Your Turn Limits,

where if you're on the app and there's eight people who you owe a response to, where you have to respond to the message, you either need to respond to them or close out the match before you can get any more matches.

Oh.

So we're really trying to tackle this problem of

Paradox of choice, too many people at the same time.

One of the biggest causes of dating burnout is not hearing back from someone.

I matched with you.

I'm so excited about you.

I ask you out and then you never reply.

That sucks.

That makes me feel really bad.

And then I'm wondering, what did I do wrong?

You probably didn't do anything wrong.

I'm probably just talking to too many people.

So this is really using the behavioral science technology of defaults and saying, if we're just going to default you to where you can only talk to a few people at the same time and you need to reply to them, it's going to help you focus and get to more dates and into better relationships.

So one of the top issues that people have on their profiles is that they're not really painting a picture of who they are.