Louise Jefferies
speaker
999 appearances
4 recordings
1 series
first heard May 2026
last heard 29 Jul
Louise Jefferies’s voice in public audio — every appearance, attributed to the second.
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We're not listening with a coaching mind to each other now because we're recording a podcast.
But if we were in a coaching conversation together, if one of us was coaching the other, we would be listening together.
for what is it you're saying that is a little bit off or needs development.
And that's what a friend can't do when you're listening as a friend, because it can be pretty brutal sometimes in a nice way, in a developmental with love way.
But sometimes you need to pick up on things which you can see there's pain behind.
Yes.
And the other thing you mentioned there was pace.
which is so important because we all want, we want quick results, but we want to develop with, we're tired.
But I think particularly when we get into our forties, fifties and beyond, it's like, God, I just want it.
I just want to work on it now.
I've had this for, for me, I had stuff for decades before I started working on it.
And I was frustrated because like, I've known this stuff.
For years, I'm now ready to get rid of it.
And I thought as soon as I decided I had enough of my people pleasing and all the rest, I would just let go of it.
And it doesn't work like that.
It takes a lot of work to let go of stuff we've had for decades.
So I can get frustrated with myself about that and I can see the frustration in my clients.
And I've had clients who I've had for a number of weeks, so a number of sessions, maybe 10 or more sessions.
And then finally, they're ready to admit to something.
And I can see the frustration for them.
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