Madeleine de Hauke
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393 appearances
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1 series
first heard Jul 2026
last heard 16 Jul
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She was a perfectionist.
She was a workaholic.
And she couldn't understand why she wasn't getting promoted.
She was doing all this work and so on.
When she was young, we identified that when she had been naughty, her mum used to tell her to go out into the garden and choose a stick.
It didn't have to be a big stick.
It could be any stick.
And that was the stick that her mum would hit the back of her legs with to teach her a lesson.
And so she was traumatized.
I call it trauma with a little t. That's not the same, a bigger trauma.
But still for her, it was repetitive little traumas that got her.
um imprinted in her body so she had to be good she mustn't make a mistake she's got good work and we have to unwire all that we have to deprogram all that so that we can stop being frightened if we're not 100 perfect but we're 80 good you know then we need to be able to move forward so yeah sensitive side of things and we all uh
It's hard to live on this planet for a while without experiencing some form of trauma.
Understanding it, recognising it for what it is, being able to name it, not blame anyone, not blame our parents if they were just doing their best.
Name it.
Once we understand it, we can deal with it.
And that's the thing.
But actually, that understanding and that recognition, it is the difficult step because fear is so sneaky.
I keep saying it, but it is.
It camouflages itself.
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