Malala Yousafzai

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But then marriage just felt like a very heavy topic for me.

I even went to read some books.

Yes, I was like, please, Virginia Woolf, help me.

Bell Hooks, can you share a few words of wisdom?

Yeah, I mean, like poor Asar.

I was asking him every possible question about every horrible things that I had seen or heard about.

Like, you know, a husband doesn't allow his wife to work.

A husband has a problem that the wife earns more money.

The husband is of this view that he can marry, like, more wives or things like that.

And he is, you know, okay with, like, telling the wife off or, like, that she has to live by his rules and all of that.

So I said, who knows?

Like, I know he's a nice guy, but who knows?

I think it's better to get a verbal...

It's just the fear, the fear that we all carry.

I knew that I was a very independent person.

I did not need a husband.

Literally, I did not need him.

But I wanted him and I wanted to make sure that this was like worth my time.

But when he, you know, when he said that, that, you know, no answers would come.