Mariel Cigarra

Watch people flirting on your subway car.

Stewart said that on the morning of our interview, he walked out of his house to get his copy of the New York Times.

Okay, it's time for a recap.

Figure out your play style or personality.

You can start by asking, how did I like to play as a kid?

And how can I incorporate that form of play into my life now?

Also, follow the whispers.

Whether you're at a job you hate or at an event unsure of what to do next, listen to that voice that's saying, go get a coconut.

Engage with your inner critic.

Give it a name.

Mine's called Doreen.

She is the worst.

And when she starts yapping and telling me that I look ridiculous, I tell her she's wrong.

Think about what makes you feel free.

And by that, we mean think of a time when you felt free to do and be as you choose.

What stands in the way of that now?

Lastly, find moments of play whenever you can.

Sorry, I was just thinking of something else silly that I did this morning, but it's too silly to tell you.

Okay, so like, I don't know if you'll know this song.

I think it's like a song from the 80s, but it's like, we got the beat.