Matthew Hussey

No matter how amazing someone felt on a date, you do not know their character.

You only know their impact.

Character can only be measured over time.

So you need time.

By the way, I've done this with men I've met when I go out and I will go to a social function and meet another guy who's just like charmed their pants off.

I'm just like, oh my God, this guy is amazing.

I would say to Audrey, my wife, I'd be like, that guy was the best.

I've come to learn this about myself, that I can't trust my judgment in the first hour.

Because some of the men in my life, some of the guys that made the greatest impression on me, that I was enamored, I was like, I just want to be this dude's friend.

We're going to be best friends.

I know it from the way he spoke to me tonight.

I'm like, six months later, I'm like, I can't stand this guy.

This guy's terrible.

And this guy does this to everybody.

And this guy, he's that guy.

And there's a wonderful phrase that will save you all a lot of heartbreak.

And that phrase is just, we'll see.

By the way, you don't have to lose your romance to say we'll see.

Your friends will come to you.

How was your date last night?