Matthew Hussey

And what's driving you is there and the values that you have.

But it's changed over and over again because you're constantly sculpting it to be your ideal version of it.

And it didn't start as your ideal version of it.

It started with like a, it's got enough of what I need that I can keep going with this because I feel like I'm on the right path.

That's what that journey is like in our careers.

You don't find the dream job, you create the dream job.

The thing I think that makes us never able to stick with a career or a business or an idea is that we want it to be our dream thing on day one.

And it just doesn't work like that.

It needs to be sculpted.

There are plenty of people in here who have created businesses that look very different than the business you started on day one because you kept sculpting it.

You realize, I don't like that part of it as much as I thought I would.

Let me change that.

But the core of it is the same.

It's like that in our love lives.

When we go around saying, who's the one for me, we are missing the point that what we do is we find a human being where there's enough of the good stuff, enough of the values and the compatibility, a much underrated thing.

If chemistry is overrated, compatibility is woefully underrated.

Love is not all you need.

Compatibility is all you need.

We find people, and we expect so much on day one, and I think that, like great sex, it should get better over time.

You meet someone and they learn you and you learn them and it gets better because you learn each other.