Melissa Kircher

It was a cool, yeah, happenstance that was not planned for.

Love that.

Okay, sixes.

They have a fear of not being able to handle life on their own.

They want security and assurance and safety.

And so how they try to get that is through thinking, assessing, planning, predicting, worrying.

It is a lot of head energy trying to assess what's happening in the moment to be prepared for the future.

They're the ones on the Enneagram that move and fluctuate constantly.

They call it a phobic six or a counterphobic six.

Sixes that are more aware of their fear are phobic sixes.

Sixes that are more like, no, not fear.

I'm going to go towards that thing that's dangerous.

Those would be the counterphobic sixes.

And I tend to find that one's not one or the other.

They tend to just move along the spectrum depending on the day, month, or year or era of your life.

They have lost touch with their inner authority.

And so they try to find authority in authority figures while also distrusting authority figures.

They try to find assurance and reassurance in relationships and other people, even though they tend to be wary and distrusting of other people.

It's a hard thing.

in and out, very warm and friendly, but also I'm watching you sort of vibes.