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Michael Gervais

๐Ÿ‘ค Speaker
181 total appearances

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Something You Should Know
The New Science of Living Longer & How to Master the Fear of Being Judged - SYSK Choice

And then you start to just practice it.

Something You Should Know
The New Science of Living Longer & How to Master the Fear of Being Judged - SYSK Choice

And over time, it does get a little bit more simple and a little bit more clear.

Something You Should Know
The New Science of Living Longer & How to Master the Fear of Being Judged - SYSK Choice

So I come from the world of sport and high-performing sport.

Something You Should Know
The New Science of Living Longer & How to Master the Fear of Being Judged - SYSK Choice

And what I just described is how we practice every skill.

Something You Should Know
The New Science of Living Longer & How to Master the Fear of Being Judged - SYSK Choice

We start in a calm, controlled, simple environment, and then we layer on top of it more speed or more accuracy or more pressure.

Something You Should Know
The New Science of Living Longer & How to Master the Fear of Being Judged - SYSK Choice

And so we go from a calm, controlled environment to something that is open and wild and has high stakes or pressure.

Something You Should Know
The New Science of Living Longer & How to Master the Fear of Being Judged - SYSK Choice

And we practice that, that laddering effect.

Something You Should Know
The New Science of Living Longer & How to Master the Fear of Being Judged - SYSK Choice

And we realize like, oh, it starts to break down.

Something You Should Know
The New Science of Living Longer & How to Master the Fear of Being Judged - SYSK Choice

Let's say it's a scale of one to seven, seven being the most stressful, the most consequential or pressure-packed.

Something You Should Know
The New Science of Living Longer & How to Master the Fear of Being Judged - SYSK Choice

And our ability to be proficient breaks down at condition three.

Something You Should Know
The New Science of Living Longer & How to Master the Fear of Being Judged - SYSK Choice

So calm is one, a little bit more intense is two.

Something You Should Know
The New Science of Living Longer & How to Master the Fear of Being Judged - SYSK Choice

And so three, we start to see some inconsistencies.

Something You Should Know
The New Science of Living Longer & How to Master the Fear of Being Judged - SYSK Choice

oh, okay, well, now we break that down.

Something You Should Know
The New Science of Living Longer & How to Master the Fear of Being Judged - SYSK Choice

What is happening?

Something You Should Know
The New Science of Living Longer & How to Master the Fear of Being Judged - SYSK Choice

Like, what do I need to specifically get better at so that I can be great at that skill?

Something You Should Know
The New Science of Living Longer & How to Master the Fear of Being Judged - SYSK Choice

And it's the same here in purpose, which is start in a calm environment and then start to practice being connected to that purpose throughout your day.

Something You Should Know
The New Science of Living Longer & How to Master the Fear of Being Judged - SYSK Choice

And you'll find the days that you're tired or the days that have a little extra stress or the days that you didn't kind of find a way to be connected to your purpose

Something You Should Know
The New Science of Living Longer & How to Master the Fear of Being Judged - SYSK Choice

that there are some common culprits that hang out there.

Something You Should Know
The New Science of Living Longer & How to Master the Fear of Being Judged - SYSK Choice

And that's where the conversation with people of wisdom and journaling and mindfulness can also pay dividends to be more clear.

Something You Should Know
The New Science of Living Longer & How to Master the Fear of Being Judged - SYSK Choice

So this is a practice, Mike.