Monte Mader

Happened at twenty three.

The big break where there was no push and pull, there was no kind of falling back in line was I was engaged in my early 20s.

I was doing I graduated college at 20.

I found the Christian guy was going to get married.

I was doing all the things right.

And his half sister turned up pregnant and she was 12.

And we found out that she had been being molested by her brother, her brother, her mother's boyfriend since she was nine.

And she finally got her period and she got pregnant.

So this had been going on for three years.

There was a criminal investigation ongoing.

It was this huge thing.

And I, I was in the room, I was close to the family.

So I'm there with her and I'm, I'm looking at her and she is, I just remember thinking she is so small, like her, her body is,

is so small and and understanding at that time i had graduated college and i went to my degree i changed degrees a few times ended up being clinical exercise science with a focus in pre-med and pre-physical therapy so i understood reproduction at this point scientifically and i knew what it could do to her especially at her size her age

And there was one day and again, there was an investigation ongoing.

Her stepmother.

So her dad's wife calls me and says, I can't get back to work in time or from work in time.

Can you take her to this class for teen girls?

Yeah, sure.

I just want to help.