Najwa Zebian

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472 appearances 1 recordings 1 series first heard Dec 2025 last heard 20 Dec

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Women of Impact · This Is How You Finally Leave the Toxic Relationship | Najwa Zebian PT 2 (Fan Fav) · 20 Dec 2025 podcast

I don't take anything personally.

I only judge myself based on my own decisions.

And that's what I'm defined by.

That makes for a very lonely life and for a very guarded and sheltered life.

It's actually the same thing that happens when you're with a partner who is very defensive.

because you say something to them you know that thing you said yesterday really hurt my feelings and if they if they were willing to sit with you in that pain that you are feeling as a result of what they said to you it requires of them to take responsibility for what they said but not only that

to understand why it's so hard for them to take responsibility.

And that is sitting on a mountain of shame and conditioning and going back to their childhood and thinking to the times when they were made to believe that if they were vulnerable in any way that made them weak.

And so instead of them sitting with you in that pain, they say, I don't want to deal with all of that.

I'm just going to tell you something's wrong with you and something's wrong about the way that you think of things.

So the same mindset behind don't take anything personally so that you don't feel all of that is the same reason that someone gets defensive.

It's the same reason why someone...

uh gets they would rather be verbally abusive towards you than show you the love that you need in that moment because they have to understand why they're not able to give that love and that's a lot for them to deal with you don't take you think that not taking things personally is better but it's because you don't want to deal with all of that so you would rather um

Go and speak to your friend about it and say, can you believe he said that to me?

And can you believe that, you know, he must be going through something.

But here you are stewing with that pain inside of you.

And you're just waiting for someone to tell you, how does that feel?

There were times when I would say to myself that I'm not going to take that person.

That has nothing to do with me.

And literally the moment.

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