Najwa Zebian

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472 appearances 1 recordings 1 series first heard Dec 2025 last heard 20 Dec

Najwa Zebian’s voice in public audio — every appearance, attributed to the second.

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hours later or days later, that someone that I love asks me, how does that feel?

That sounds awful.

Then I'm in a puddle of tears because I'm feeling, I'm like, that was really hurtful.

And do you think that's because also someone else validated the pain?

Yes, someone else saw the pain that's inside of you that you thought,

was wrong because if you are someone who doesn't take things personally, then you won't feel that pain.

That's what we want to condition people to believe when we give them that advice, but it's very harmful advice.

So if you've heard this before, don't take this personally.

change that to take things personally.

Because it's only when you take things personally that you are able to walk away from places that aren't for you.

It's only when you take things personally that you're able to feel the pain, the anger, the frustration, the

just going through that moment where you're just like, I just don't want to do this anymore.

It's only when you feel the pain of what just happened that you are able to get to the other side.

So taking it personally doesn't mean that you sit there and you're like, oh, it's my fault.

So how do you separate the two then?

Taking it personally does not mean you say, what was my part in this?

Like I'm the one who caused this or it's me.

I'm not pretty enough.

I don't have that body type that my partner likes.

That's not what taking it personally means.

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