Najwa Zebian
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472 appearances
1 recordings
1 series
first heard Dec 2025
last heard 20 Dec
Najwa Zebian’s voice in public audio — every appearance, attributed to the second.
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How does that make you really feel?
Like it's not about let's get up and let's go get dressed and go to a party and maybe you'll meet someone else.
You're numbing that way.
It's the most beautiful thing to be able to sit and tell yourself, I just went through something really awful and I'm going to need some time to recalibrate my understanding of who I am and to recalibrate my life with this new reality that someone who I never thought would betray me in that way.
actually betrayed me.
To be able to sit with that pain and with that discomfort, not only will it bring you closer to who you are and to who the best version of yourself is somewhere in the future, but also if you are planning on staying with this person or if you are planning on ever getting into another relationship after that with another person,
It prepares you to be the best version of yourself in that relationship, in this new one that you're building with the person who betrayed you or with the person in the future.
It's necessary to get through the pain and you don't get through the pain if you don't
sit with it and feel it and cry it out.
And I always give this analogy of it's hard for us to feel the pain because you're like, I don't know when it's going to end.
I'm scared that if I start feeling it, that it's just going to bring up so much for me.
If you open the floodgates and it won't stop.
Yeah.
So you'd rather say...
Just as I'm saying this, these videos that I see on social media are like replaying in my head where you hear people tell stories and say, I found out that my partner cheated on me and I was just like, OK.
And, you know, I walked out and I did my own thing and that just never hurt me.
I'm so much better than that person, whatever.
I hear stuff like that.
And I know that beneath that.
There's a gaping valley of grief that's untouched that needs to happen.
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