Najwa Zebian
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472 appearances
1 recordings
1 series
first heard Dec 2025
last heard 20 Dec
Najwa Zebian’s voice in public audio — every appearance, attributed to the second.
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Because if you loved that person that betrayed you,
You are going to be in pain that they're no longer in your life.
You are going to be in pain that they are not who you thought they were.
You are going to be in pain that this relationship that you thought you had isn't what you actually thought you had.
You will feel that if you are in touch with your emotions and if you are willing to just feel.
What's the difference?
I've heard you talk about dirty and clean pain.
Yeah.
Talk to me about that.
Dirty pain and clean pain.
So clean pain is when you go through an experience like someone cheated on you and you actually go through the stages of feeling that pain.
You go through the stages of grief if you walk away from that person or the stages of grief over the relationship changing.
Maybe they're still there, but you grieve
the dynamic that was there that now needs to be worked on so you deal with it in a way where you don't make it mean something about yourself you don't say of course this would happen to me or this always happens to me or
I deserved it because, you know, I was very neglectful maybe there.
Maybe I took more care of the children than I took care of my partner.
Maybe you start blaming yourself.
So that's dirty pain is when the pain that you're feeling is it's like...
Imagine like playing in the mud and you're wearing white and it doesn't matter what you do or where you go, you're going to get dirty.
So dirty pain, it kind of persists until you decide to step out of it and say, I'm not doing this to myself anymore.
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