Nat Tanchich

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30,756 appearances 284 recordings 1 series first heard Feb 2018 last heard Nov 2021

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The Hook Up · What is ethical non-monogamy? And is it for me? · 1 Nov 2021 podcast

And one of those conversations you have to have is about how your version of non monogamy is going to work. voice-verified

As you heard, there are any number of styles, and you want to make sure everyone knows what's okay so that no one gets hurt. voice-verified

But Jenna says you're likely to fail if you make hard and fast rules. voice-verified

It's a risk because it's impossible to know if your relationship is going to take well to the change. voice-verified

And it's impossible to know what's going to come up too. voice-verified

You can't stop love from entering a situation where you agreed it was just gonna be about sex. voice-verified

You also can't stop jealousy or pain from coming up. voice-verified

But what you can change is your attitude to those things. voice-verified

Jenna says you can fortify your original relationship by working on your attachment, which you can learn more about in your hookup podcast feed. voice-verified

NRE, by the way, is new relationship energy. voice-verified

We all get it, that fuzzy, lovey, limerence feeling. voice-verified

But non-monogamous people have to deal with it and the dumb stuff it does to your ability to make decisions in a different way. voice-verified

Because you do have the option to act on it and deal with all of the fallout that comes with it. voice-verified

I ended a seven year relationship over it. voice-verified

I had been in an open situation with my ex and while we were long distance with her working overseas, we were open, sleeping with whoever we wanted. voice-verified

But love wasn't on the table. voice-verified

And to my current partner who I fell head over heels for after sleeping with one time. voice-verified

I didn't expect it. voice-verified

I had plans. voice-verified

My ex and I were gonna move into a little house and voice-verified

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