Nat Tanchich

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30,756 appearances 284 recordings 1 series first heard Feb 2018 last heard Nov 2021

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The Hook Up · Is coming out outdated? · 11 Oct 2021 podcast

Be kind, be excited for them, be curious without being critical, ditch the stereotypes, and tell them you love them for showing you their full selves. voice-verified

But yeah, it's not gonna be like that every time, and a negative reaction could lead to serious consequences, like damaging a relationship or even losing a job. voice-verified

How can you cope if it doesn't go the way you hoped? voice-verified

If you get a shitty reaction, remember it's not your fault at all. voice-verified

You're beautiful, you rainbow bean, and there are people who will embrace you for who you are. voice-verified

You can turn to so many places for support, and we'll mention some of those in the show notes as well. voice-verified

So coming out happens because we still have these straight cis mono norms. voice-verified

And visibility as an out queer person is actually what helps change those norms. voice-verified

But that means there's a pressure to be out that not everybody wants to shoulder. voice-verified

Ah when identities become political. voice-verified

Taz says he feels this a lot, that he was erasing himself, and in turn other bisexuals who depend on visibility to change things for the better. voice-verified

So how do you weigh up that sense of responsibility with what you want for yourself? voice-verified

He's Juniper. voice-verified

Where does this pressure sort of come from? voice-verified

There are so many reasons to come out if it's safe for you. voice-verified

It's relieving to be your whole self. voice-verified

It's nice to be part of a community. voice-verified

It helps other people like you to do the same. voice-verified

There are also so many reasons to stay in or just not share with everyone in your life. voice-verified

Like not wanting to feel boxed in by a label. voice-verified

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