Nat Tanchich
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30,756 appearances
284 recordings
1 series
first heard Feb 2018
last heard Nov 2021
Nat Tanchich’s voice in public audio — every appearance, attributed to the second.
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And when you try and work out what's wrong and how to fix it, it's like talking to a brick wall.
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Maybe it's just a few hours, maybe a few days, but it could be even weeks of being totally shut down.
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And that's when it really starts to send you.
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But then again, maybe you're on the other side of this.
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You hear your partner say something that rubs you the wrong way and you want to let them know, but you don't actually want to have a fight.
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You're not into confrontation.
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Not saying anything can be an easier way of making your point.
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Well,
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That's stonewalling and it sucks.
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I'm Nat Tanchich and stonewalling can have a really negative effect, not only on your relationship, but on your mental health.
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On this episode, you'll learn why people do it, how to tell whether or not it's intentional, how to cope if you're on the receiving end and how to stop if you're doing it.
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When you keep coming up against a wall, it's tough, especially when you're trying to have an important conversation.
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While scrolling through the hookup Instagram inbox, which you can always DM if you've got a topic for me, I came across a message from Annie.
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She said she got a lot of this from her sort of ex.
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I say sort of because, well, anytime she tried to have the what are we chat, that's what they do.
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Dodge, duck, drop off and put up that stone wall.
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Sorry, a whole year, a whole year of
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you described this behaviour as stonewalling.
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What does that mean to you as far as you, you know, you know?
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yeah like like talk me more um through how it would feel when um this person did these you know things to you like did you feel like it was ever justified did you feel confused what was going through your head
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