Nat Tanchich

speaker

30,756 appearances 284 recordings 1 series first heard Feb 2018 last heard Nov 2021

Nat Tanchich’s voice in public audio — every appearance, attributed to the second.

Trend

recordings per month · last 12 months

No recordings in the last 12 months.Older appearances are listed below; set an alert to hear about the next one.

newest first · ▶ plays the moment

The Hook Up · Stonewalling: how to deal with the silent treatment · 4 Oct 2021 podcast

But my silent treatment can be pretty precision targeted. voice-verified

I cave almost straight away. voice-verified

So maybe Annie's ex was just shutting down because he couldn't handle talking about commitment. voice-verified

But she still thinks it was intentional. voice-verified

Jared says stonewalling can be a tactic to control your partner, but it's certainly not always the case. voice-verified

whilst voice-verified

Well, okay, yeah, you know the four horsemen of the apocalypse, obviously. voice-verified

Well, these four horsemen are the harbingers of a crappy post-apocalyptic relationship. voice-verified

Or a breakup. voice-verified

As well as stonewalling, you've got criticism, contempt, and defensiveness. voice-verified

Not a hot foursome. voice-verified

Okay, so that's some serious shit. voice-verified

And it's true that stonewalling can be a sign of abuse in a relationship. voice-verified

Jared says it can be hard to tell, but there are signs. voice-verified

Yeah, it's so hard to understand intentionality, I guess. voice-verified

But at what point would you say it can no longer be attributed to that flight or fight or freeze response? voice-verified

Is there kind of a timeline we're looking at here? voice-verified

is voice-verified

So if stonewalling is happening, does that mean your relationship is entering its post-apocalyptic wasteland phase? voice-verified

Remember Four Horsemen? voice-verified

Showing 821–840 of 30,756 · page 42 of 1538