Nat Tanchich
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30,756 appearances
284 recordings
1 series
first heard Feb 2018
last heard Nov 2021
Nat Tanchich’s voice in public audio — every appearance, attributed to the second.
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So is this what's driving our lack of confidence?
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Because remember, only 1 in 3 people call themselves good at sex.
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And only 1 in 10 think they're great.
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And there's a slight split between guys and gals too, with women being slightly more willing to call themselves great.
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So are straight guys actually worse in bed?
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Or are they just underselling themselves?
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Cam says there's a bravado attached to the idea of straight men's sexual ability.
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It can even stop some dudes from getting better, because they're so hung up on proving that they're good.
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It is interesting that you mentioned, you know, men in particular feeling a little bit less confident because according to the Netflix stats, they found that women rated themselves more highly than men, only slightly.
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16% said that they were great, while only 11% of dudes said that they were great.
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So what do you think, what do we think that's all about?
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And do you think, I mean, I guess too, like a bit of a disconnect between what guys are sort of told means that they're good in bed and what actually makes you good in bed.
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While the data didn't split based on sexuality, anecdotally, some Hookup listeners told us they felt their queerness made them better at sex.
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Chantelle says while having the same equipment can help in some encounters, a reminder that not all queer sex encounters are opposite biological sex, it's not the only reason queers are good at sex.
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okay well we're here for education so let's talk about how you can be having that kind of connected open sex because that's what makes you good right and you want to be good well chantelle says it's time to back it up because we are still thinking about this all wrong it depends on who you're
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Okay, okay, so it's not about you being good.
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It's about having a good thing going and working on it with your partner.
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That's the kind of thing that makes you sexually compatible.
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Now, if you haven't heard about this before, sexual compatibility is when you and your partner have desires and preferences that complement each other.
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You like the same stuff, or you love taking opposite roles.
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