Nat Tanchich
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30,756 appearances
284 recordings
1 series
first heard Feb 2018
last heard Nov 2021
Nat Tanchich’s voice in public audio — every appearance, attributed to the second.
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It might have once been just the kind of thing that happened in BDSM dungeons, or just in the world of porn where dominant fantasies are the norm, but recent studies have found that choking is common among uni-age students.
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Dr Debbie Herbenick, a professor and sex researcher at the Indiana University School of Public Health,
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surveyed 4,200 undergrads in 2020 and found that about 1 in 4 women, about 6.6% of men, and 1 in 5 trans and non-binary participants had been choked the last time they had sex.
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And when it comes to the people doing the choking, it was about 5.7% of women, a quarter of men, and a quarter of trans and NB people.
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In a wider previous study she did titled Choked, she found almost 40% of 18 to 29 year olds surveyed had choked or been choked.
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So yeah, it's a thing.
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And it's part of the reason listener Tom got in touch with the hookup.
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He says his girlfriend wants to try breath play with him.
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That is, she wants him to choke her.
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And while he's curious, he's understandably nervous about some of the risks.
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Yeah, no, 100%.
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So let's go back to the start and talk to me about how this first came up for you and your girlfriend.
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What was the first conversation like?
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How did she bring it to your attention?
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How did you feel about it when she mentioned this to you?
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this is something that you clearly don't feel all that comfortable with, but you, but let me get this right, that you really feel like you want to try, um, for the pleasure of your partner.
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i mean it's a tough one can this ever actually be safe
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I don't go out of my way to yuck anyone's yum, we are very sex positive on the hookup of course, but breath play can have fatal consequences.
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Like, I'm not messing around here.
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Even some of the most hardcore doms and subs won't touch this one because it's so risky.
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